When I reached the point you describe, I turned to temping. I registered with three agencies and worked for a series of high level muckety mucks as an admin asst. No stress, and no entanglements of any kind. Fifteen years. It worked for me. I had quit a job (after 12 years) where I’d begun to feel very much unappreciated. While new technology was taking over some of my more tedious duties, my direct supervisor refused to consider cutting my hours! “Looking busy” (her suggestion) was not in my job description nor in my wheelhouse!
I find myself in a position where nobody really pays me much mind. Where I can turn off my laptop at 5 and never work weekends or holidays. Where I can take a vacation and not take my laptop. I've never really experienced anything like this. I like it... but it feels alien and I have to constantly remind myself that this is FINE.
I do wonder what happens when I wake up one day and it's not FINE ... as a 60 year-old, not male. I mean I earned a fine living with part-time/temp stuff during the pandemic... could I do that again? I don't know. I don't really want to find out. The insurance is really good where I'm at now...
When I reached the point you describe, I turned to temping. I registered with three agencies and worked for a series of high level muckety mucks as an admin asst. No stress, and no entanglements of any kind. Fifteen years. It worked for me. I had quit a job (after 12 years) where I’d begun to feel very much unappreciated. While new technology was taking over some of my more tedious duties, my direct supervisor refused to consider cutting my hours! “Looking busy” (her suggestion) was not in my job description nor in my wheelhouse!
Did I mention that temping allowed me to take vacation time whenever I chose? Also paid for health insurance, through one agency.
I find myself in a position where nobody really pays me much mind. Where I can turn off my laptop at 5 and never work weekends or holidays. Where I can take a vacation and not take my laptop. I've never really experienced anything like this. I like it... but it feels alien and I have to constantly remind myself that this is FINE.
I do wonder what happens when I wake up one day and it's not FINE ... as a 60 year-old, not male. I mean I earned a fine living with part-time/temp stuff during the pandemic... could I do that again? I don't know. I don't really want to find out. The insurance is really good where I'm at now...
I understand so much of this. As usual, your writing touches on truths that many of us sense but cannot articulate. Thank you for this.